In wedding planning your gown is the centerpiece. Basically, everything else is built around it. The gown sets the style and formality for the ceremony and reception.
Your bridal gown should create a signature statement for your wedding. You should select a dress that makes you feel like royalty.
A-Line/Princes
The A-line dress features a shape that is fitted around the bodice and flows out to the ground, resembling the outline of an uppercase A. The dress flows fluidly from the bust to the hem with an unbroken line. Due to its classic and simple style, the A-line dress is appropriate for any occasion.
Empire
An empire dress is defined by the raised waistline that sits just below the bust, from which the rest of the dress flows down to the hem. This style is usually paired with a square neckline and wide set straps or sleeves.
Column
The column dress has a narrow shape that flows straight down from the neckline to the hem. This dress, also referred to as a sheath, tends to hug the body and show any and all of your curves.
Ball Gown
The ball gown style is perfect for those brides envisioning a fairy tale wedding. This silhouette pairs a fitted bodice with a full skirt that can either be one piece or separates. The ball gown is most appropriate for large, traditional weddings.
Mermaid
The mermaid silhouette contours to the body from the chest to the knee, then flares out to the hem. This is a very sexy look that highlights the curves of a woman’s body.
The Sleeves
Choose your sleeves so you can feel comfortable. Flattering sleeves can enhance your overall look by camouflaging heavy or thin arms.
Cap
These sleeves are short and fitted on the arms. They are usually paired with a fitted bodice.
Three-quarter
This is a fitted sleeve that ends midway between the elbow and the wrist.
Fitted
This natural set-in sleeve can be either long or short. It is always without fullness and worn very close to the arm.
Pagoda
This sleeve is fitted from the shoulder to the elbow, then flares out in a tier to mid arm in front and to the wrist in back.
Bell
The set in sleeve is fitted from the armhole to the elbow, flaring out at the wrist.
Sleeveless
No Sleeve
Pouf
Full and gathered at the shoulder and upper arm creating a "pouf" shape, then narrowing down towards the elbow and wrist.
Waistline - The waistline brings shape and balance to your gown and adds style to your silhouette.
Natural
The bodice and skirt are joined and fitted naturally at the waist.
Basque
This has an elongated bodice, which fits through the waist and drops to a pointed "V" in front.
Dropped
The bodice is dropped several inches below the natural waistline.
Empire
This has a shortened bodice with a high-waisted seam just below the bust line.
Lengths - The length you wear will depend on the formality of your wedding and your gown's silhouette. It can either add the illusion of height or make you appear shorter.
Floor
The longest hemline falls 1/2" from the floor, slightly brushing the floor ( formal or semi-formal).
Ankle
The long hemline barely revels the ankles (formal or semi-formal).
Tea
This hemline falls several inches above the ankles (semi-formal or informal).
Knee
The short skirt falls just below the knee (informal).
Mini
The shortest skirt falls mid-thigh (informal).
Hemlines- add definition to the overall look of your dress. The right hemlines can work wonders in enhancing the shape of your hips.
Trumpet
A slim, fitted skirt or dress that flares out at the knee to create a conical trumpet shape.
A-line
The skirt falls gently from the hips and flares at the hemline to create an A-shape.
Fishtail
A panel sewn on to the back of the skirt simulates a fishtail.
Straight
A dress that falls from the hips straight down to the hemline with no diversions.
(Info provided by The Afrocentric Bride)
Thursday, August 30, 2007
Tuesday, August 28, 2007
What Type Of Neckline Are You Blessed With?
These are just basic necklines available for you to choose from when selecting your wedding dress.
Low-cut scoop or v-necks will show off your flirty side, while high collared or bateau necklines are a more sophisticated option.
Necklines: Scoop
This basic neckline arcs down from one shoulder to the other in a "U" shape. Much like the v-neck, the scoop can be as deep or as high as you feel comfortable with, depending on the amount of skin you want to expose. Most all figures can pull off this look, as it is compatible with all sleeve lengths.
Necklines: High Collar
A high collar covers the chest and can either end just below the neck or extend up the neck. Having a high collar on your wedding dress will create a formal and elegant look. There are many variations on the high collar that include a cut-out or keyhole that exposes a limited amount of your chest while maintaining the look of a high collar. You can also opt for an illusion high collar that uses a sheer or lace covering over a strapless bodice that still covers your upper body but allows your sexy side to shine through. This neckline also supports all lengths of sleeves so all body types can pull off this look.
Necklines: Sweetheart
The sweetheart neckline gets its name from the way it arcs over each breast, connected between them in a "V" and creating what looks like the top of a heart. This style is most commonly found on strapless dresses, but is also available on dresses with a variety of sleeve lengths. The sweetheart neckline is ideal for brides with a large bust line since the shape helps create support and control exposure.
Necklines: Square
The square neckline has a straight horizontal bodice that meets with straps in a 90 degree angle. The crisp clean lines of the square neck will create an elegant look on any dress style and works well with most all figures. The straps can be sleeveless, or flow into any length of sleeve so you have the option of baring your arms or covering them up with this neckline.
Necklines: Off The Shoulder
Off the shoulder dresses do just that, hang off the shoulder. The neckline encircles your torso, wrapping around the outside of your upper arms, just below the shoulder. A variation on this neckline is known as the Portrait cut because of the way it seems to frame your face. This look is often used with longer sleeves so you can be covered but also show off your neck and shoulders. This look is very elegant without sleeves as well since it allows you to have an open neckline, much like a strapless dress would, but also provides support for your bodice.
Necklines: V-Neck
The V-neck drops the neckline down in a "V" shape between the shoulders. This neckline can range from very subtle to plunging, depending on how revealing you want your dress to be. The V-neck works well with both large and small breasted women. A high "V" can conceal large breasts in a feminine manner by highlighting their natural shape while maintaining coverage. Conversely, small breasted women can wear a low cut or wide set "V" that will draw attention to the chest and create the illusion of a fuller bust. A V-neck is a good option for brides with all upper-body types since it can be used with any sleeve length, from thin spaghetti straps to long sleeves and anything in between.
Necklines: Strapless
This simple neckline extends from one underarm to the other without the support of straps. This is a classic look that can be slightly modified by having the neckline softly arc up or down depending on how you want your bodice shaped. This neckline looks best on brides who have well-toned arms since the line of the strapless dress draws attention horizontally across your body, which includes your upper arms and shoulders.
Necklines: Bateau
The bateau, or boat neck, connects at the edges of the shoulders, leaving a long neckline that runs from shoulder to shoulder along the collarbone. This sleek style can either be strapless or have any length of sleeve. It is particularly suited for brides with a larger bust line since it draws attention up to the neck and collarbone.
Necklines: Halter
This neckline features two straps that connect from the bodice to the back of the neck. There are many options with the halter, as it can be a variation of the square neckline where the straps pull from a horizontal bodice, or it can be paired with a V-neck for a sexier look. This neckline is most appropriate for those brides that have well-toned upper arms as the halter draws attention to your neck and shoulders. Due to the nature of this neckline's design, it does not allow for sleeves, so if you are conscious of your arms and want them covered, then you may want to choose a different neckline. The halter neckline works well with all dress types from the dramatic ball gown to the sleek column, so whatever silhouette you choose, the halter is a reasonable option.
(Info provided by The Wedding Solution)
Low-cut scoop or v-necks will show off your flirty side, while high collared or bateau necklines are a more sophisticated option.
Necklines: Scoop
This basic neckline arcs down from one shoulder to the other in a "U" shape. Much like the v-neck, the scoop can be as deep or as high as you feel comfortable with, depending on the amount of skin you want to expose. Most all figures can pull off this look, as it is compatible with all sleeve lengths.
Necklines: High Collar
A high collar covers the chest and can either end just below the neck or extend up the neck. Having a high collar on your wedding dress will create a formal and elegant look. There are many variations on the high collar that include a cut-out or keyhole that exposes a limited amount of your chest while maintaining the look of a high collar. You can also opt for an illusion high collar that uses a sheer or lace covering over a strapless bodice that still covers your upper body but allows your sexy side to shine through. This neckline also supports all lengths of sleeves so all body types can pull off this look.
Necklines: Sweetheart
The sweetheart neckline gets its name from the way it arcs over each breast, connected between them in a "V" and creating what looks like the top of a heart. This style is most commonly found on strapless dresses, but is also available on dresses with a variety of sleeve lengths. The sweetheart neckline is ideal for brides with a large bust line since the shape helps create support and control exposure.
Necklines: Square
The square neckline has a straight horizontal bodice that meets with straps in a 90 degree angle. The crisp clean lines of the square neck will create an elegant look on any dress style and works well with most all figures. The straps can be sleeveless, or flow into any length of sleeve so you have the option of baring your arms or covering them up with this neckline.
Necklines: Off The Shoulder
Off the shoulder dresses do just that, hang off the shoulder. The neckline encircles your torso, wrapping around the outside of your upper arms, just below the shoulder. A variation on this neckline is known as the Portrait cut because of the way it seems to frame your face. This look is often used with longer sleeves so you can be covered but also show off your neck and shoulders. This look is very elegant without sleeves as well since it allows you to have an open neckline, much like a strapless dress would, but also provides support for your bodice.
Necklines: V-Neck
The V-neck drops the neckline down in a "V" shape between the shoulders. This neckline can range from very subtle to plunging, depending on how revealing you want your dress to be. The V-neck works well with both large and small breasted women. A high "V" can conceal large breasts in a feminine manner by highlighting their natural shape while maintaining coverage. Conversely, small breasted women can wear a low cut or wide set "V" that will draw attention to the chest and create the illusion of a fuller bust. A V-neck is a good option for brides with all upper-body types since it can be used with any sleeve length, from thin spaghetti straps to long sleeves and anything in between.
Necklines: Strapless
This simple neckline extends from one underarm to the other without the support of straps. This is a classic look that can be slightly modified by having the neckline softly arc up or down depending on how you want your bodice shaped. This neckline looks best on brides who have well-toned arms since the line of the strapless dress draws attention horizontally across your body, which includes your upper arms and shoulders.
Necklines: Bateau
The bateau, or boat neck, connects at the edges of the shoulders, leaving a long neckline that runs from shoulder to shoulder along the collarbone. This sleek style can either be strapless or have any length of sleeve. It is particularly suited for brides with a larger bust line since it draws attention up to the neck and collarbone.
Necklines: Halter
This neckline features two straps that connect from the bodice to the back of the neck. There are many options with the halter, as it can be a variation of the square neckline where the straps pull from a horizontal bodice, or it can be paired with a V-neck for a sexier look. This neckline is most appropriate for those brides that have well-toned upper arms as the halter draws attention to your neck and shoulders. Due to the nature of this neckline's design, it does not allow for sleeves, so if you are conscious of your arms and want them covered, then you may want to choose a different neckline. The halter neckline works well with all dress types from the dramatic ball gown to the sleek column, so whatever silhouette you choose, the halter is a reasonable option.
(Info provided by The Wedding Solution)
Sunday, August 12, 2007
Lets Talk About Your Flowers
Wedding Flowers
Ceremony Flowers- can be used to personalized your ceremony site.
Altar- These are flower arrangements on either side of the altar. These are usually on the large side so that they can be view from afar.
Trellis - In case your wedding is outside you may want to rent a trellis. They come in various sizes and shapes. The florist will decorate them with your wedding colors.
Pews - A simple ribbon or flower arrangement will may your pew look wonderful. A lot of times these arrangements can be use to mark the pew for special guest.
Bridal Party
Bridal bouquet Bridal throw-away bouquet Bridal go-away corsage/bouquet Maid of Honor bouquet (can be different from bridesmaids) Bridesmaids bouquets Flower girl bouquet or basket, optional headpiece Mother of Bride corsage/bouquet Bride's Father - boutonniere Grandmothers/Great Grandmothers corsage Grandfather/Great Grandfathers - boutonniere
Groom's Party
Groom boutonniere (can be different from ushers) Best man boutonniere Ushers boutonniere Ring Bearer pillow and boutonniere Groom's Mom's corsage/bouquet Groom's Father's boutonniere Grandmother/Great Grandmothers corsage Grandfather/Great Grandfathers boutonniere
Church
Candelabras Pew decorations Aisle runner Altar decorations Arch (optional or for outdoor services)
Reception
Arrangements for tables/chairs Tablecloths, napkins available Arrangement for head table (dais) Cake arrangements for cake or table (optional) Arrangement for buffet table Arrangement for sign-in table Arrangements for restrooms
After the Ceremony
After the ceremony, there are many options for the flowers. Below are some suggestions:
Have a family member or guest bring the bouquet to the reception to use as a centerpiece on the gift or reception card table.
Deliver them to a nursing home or hospital for someone else to enjoy.
Deliver them to a sick friend or relative who could not attend your wedding.
If there is a service the next day, they may be left behind.
Ceremony Flowers- can be used to personalized your ceremony site.
Altar- These are flower arrangements on either side of the altar. These are usually on the large side so that they can be view from afar.
Trellis - In case your wedding is outside you may want to rent a trellis. They come in various sizes and shapes. The florist will decorate them with your wedding colors.
Pews - A simple ribbon or flower arrangement will may your pew look wonderful. A lot of times these arrangements can be use to mark the pew for special guest.
Bridal Party
Bridal bouquet Bridal throw-away bouquet Bridal go-away corsage/bouquet Maid of Honor bouquet (can be different from bridesmaids) Bridesmaids bouquets Flower girl bouquet or basket, optional headpiece Mother of Bride corsage/bouquet Bride's Father - boutonniere Grandmothers/Great Grandmothers corsage Grandfather/Great Grandfathers - boutonniere
Groom's Party
Groom boutonniere (can be different from ushers) Best man boutonniere Ushers boutonniere Ring Bearer pillow and boutonniere Groom's Mom's corsage/bouquet Groom's Father's boutonniere Grandmother/Great Grandmothers corsage Grandfather/Great Grandfathers boutonniere
Church
Candelabras Pew decorations Aisle runner Altar decorations Arch (optional or for outdoor services)
Reception
Arrangements for tables/chairs Tablecloths, napkins available Arrangement for head table (dais) Cake arrangements for cake or table (optional) Arrangement for buffet table Arrangement for sign-in table Arrangements for restrooms
After the Ceremony
After the ceremony, there are many options for the flowers. Below are some suggestions:
Have a family member or guest bring the bouquet to the reception to use as a centerpiece on the gift or reception card table.
Deliver them to a nursing home or hospital for someone else to enjoy.
Deliver them to a sick friend or relative who could not attend your wedding.
If there is a service the next day, they may be left behind.
Usher & Tameka Foster's Wedding Canceled
July 28, 2007People.com reported details of Usher's wedding being canceled.
The wedding of Usher and Tameka Foster, originally planned for Saturday afternoon at record executive L.A. Reid's home in New York's Hamptons, has been canceled, a representative for Usher confirms to PEOPLE .
A source also says that the 70 to 100 guests who were expected at the wedding are being advised that the event will not take place as originally planned. Flower decorations have also been seen being removed from the Reid home.
In a statement, publicist Patti Webster said, "It was announced today that the wedding ceremony for Usher Raymond IV and Tameka Foster was canceled. No additional information will be given regarding the circumstances of the cancellation, but we hope the privacy of this matter will be respected." Read more . . .
Wednesday, August 1, 2007
Does It Make Sense To Insure Your Wedding?
Wedding News
By Marshall Loeb
NEW YORK - Given that the average cost of a wedding America has reached $27,000, it's no surprise that less than 1 percent of couples make room in the budget for wedding insurance. But if you and your beloved are sinking a fortune into your upcoming nuptials it may be worth considering taking out a policy.
Wedding insurance now covers a broad range of contingencies and can help you recoup your money should things go awry on or before your special day. You can buy policies that cover nonrefundable deposits if you have to cancel your wedding due a death in the family or a natural disaster like a flood, fire or hurricane; others reimburse you if your spouse is in the military and is unexpectly deployed; and still others cover the expense of restaging wedding photos or replacing a lost or damaged wedding dress.
There's even a policy that covers cold feet, so parents no longer have to pay the price for a child's last minute change of heart.
The cost of wedding insurance ranges from a couple hundred dollars all the way up to $1,000 , depending on where you buy your policy and what it covers. This may sound like another unnecessary expense, but it's just a drop in the bucket when you consider the overall price .
By Marshall Loeb
NEW YORK - Given that the average cost of a wedding America has reached $27,000, it's no surprise that less than 1 percent of couples make room in the budget for wedding insurance. But if you and your beloved are sinking a fortune into your upcoming nuptials it may be worth considering taking out a policy.
Wedding insurance now covers a broad range of contingencies and can help you recoup your money should things go awry on or before your special day. You can buy policies that cover nonrefundable deposits if you have to cancel your wedding due a death in the family or a natural disaster like a flood, fire or hurricane; others reimburse you if your spouse is in the military and is unexpectly deployed; and still others cover the expense of restaging wedding photos or replacing a lost or damaged wedding dress.
There's even a policy that covers cold feet, so parents no longer have to pay the price for a child's last minute change of heart.
The cost of wedding insurance ranges from a couple hundred dollars all the way up to $1,000 , depending on where you buy your policy and what it covers. This may sound like another unnecessary expense, but it's just a drop in the bucket when you consider the overall price .
Sunday, July 15, 2007
Responsibilites Of The Wedding Parties
Maid of honor: Also known as a matron of honor if she is married, this is the bride's right-hand-gal. She helps the bride plan the wedding, and supports her during the ceremony. She organizes the bridal shower and fulfills numerous wedding day responsibilities, including walking down the aisle behind the bride, holding the groom's ring on her thumb, toasting the couple, as well as collecting gift envelopes at the reception.
Best man: The male equivalent to a maid of honor. He helps plan the bachelor party, making sure things don't go in a direction disrespectful of the bride. If there is a co-ed wedding shower, the best man helps the maid of honor with the planning. He traditionally drives the groom to the wedding, keeps the bride's ring, gives the officiant his or her fee after the ceremony, and offers a reception toast.
Bridesmaids: A support group for the maid of honor, they help her organize pre-wedding parties and perform nuptial tasks. It is the bridesmaids who throw the bride a bachelorette party. In keeping with their party hostess image, bridesmaids may be asked to lure guests onto the dance floor during the reception.
Groomsmen: Any number of men who help the best man and the groom with wedding plans. At the ceremony, the groomsmen accompany the bridesmaids down the aisle; they may also act as ushers before joining the wedding party at the altar.
Flower girl: A young girl, aged between three and eight, who walks in front of the bride with a basket of flower petals, which she scatters about. After walking down the aisle, the flower girl sits down for the duration of the ceremony.
Ring bearer: A young boy, aged between three and eight, who walks down the aisle just before the flower girl -- or in front of the bride if there is no flower girl. The ring bearer carries a small, decorative pillow, on which two rings have been attached.
Ushers: For many people, the term usher is synonymous with groomsman. Some weddings, however, feature separate people whose sole job is to seat guests.
Mother of the bride: While not so much a position as a point of fact, the mother of the bride does incur a few responsibilities, including walking her daughter down the aisle if her daughter desires, and being reception hostess, reception toaster, and emotional support for the bride.
Mother of the groom: The groom's mother attends the bridal shower and rehearsal dinner with the rest of the wedding party. At the ceremony, she may be escorted up the aisle during the prelude. And, of course, for weddings that have dancing at the reception, she gets to dance the mother-son dance with the groom.
Father of the bride: He may or may not help with the funding of his daughter's wedding. Other duties might include walking his daughter down the aisle, helping the couple find a wedding site, ferrying guests to and from the wedding site and reception venue, as well as initiating "man-to-man" talks with his future son-in-law about topics from the bachelor party to the groom's place in the bride's family. Heartfelt reception toasts are commonly given by the father of the bride, as well.
Father of the groom: He and the groom's mother might help the bride and groom fund various parts of the wedding -- traditionally, the groom's side paid for the rehearsal dinner. The father of the groom might also help the father of the bride find a wedding location, offer wedding toasts, and address any service problems that arise during the wedding and reception.
Junior bridesmaids: Young women, typically aged between nine and 15, who dress and function as bridesmaids.
Junior groomsmen: Young men, generally aged between nine and 15, who dress and act as groomsmen.
Junior ushers: Usually young men, though they can be young women, aged between nine and 15, who dress the same, and perform the same duties as adult ushers.
Candle lighter: In some Christian ceremonies, boys or girls aged between nine and 12 light candles at the altar just before the mother of the bride is seated. Candle lighters usually dress like the wedding party.
Train bearers: (They are also called pages.) Young boys or girls, aged between six and nine, who carry the bride's extra-long train as she walks down the aisle. Do not use train bearers, however, if your dress does not have a train!
Friday, July 6, 2007
Charlotte Couple Chosen to Wed in the Wal-Mart Aisles on 7/7/07
From the Wall Street Journal Online
Local couple are 'Lucky in Love' and awarded wedding package, ceremony and reception venues on most popular wedding date of the year
BENTONVILLE, Ark., June 14 /PRNewswire-FirstCall -- Charlotte, N.C., couple Caleb Cox and Ella Glass are "lucky in love" after learning they are one of only seven couples across the country that will be married at a Wal-Mart store on one of the most sought-after wedding dates in recent years. Wal-Mart stores and G-Squared, a Wal-Mart exclusive brand from Gartner Studios, announced the names of the seven couples receiving such wedding packages earlier this week as a result of their "Lucky in Love Wedding Search."
When Wal-Mart Stores discovered many of its betrothed customers were having difficulty finding venues for their July 7 -- or 7/7/07 -- weddings due to the popularity of a "lucky 7" date, they joined G-Squared to provide a solution. In addition, the cost of the average American wedding can be overwhelming at $22,000(1). The answer was the "Lucky in Love Wedding Search" to provide seven couples their local Wal-Mart lawn and garden area as the colorful backdrop for the ceremonies and receptions. After reviewing more than 400 entries from across the country, Caleb and Ella were selected to say "I do" at the Wal-Mart Supercenter at 3706 Diann Marie Road in Louisville, Ky., which is Ella's hometown.
Read more . . .
Local couple are 'Lucky in Love' and awarded wedding package, ceremony and reception venues on most popular wedding date of the year
BENTONVILLE, Ark., June 14 /PRNewswire-FirstCall -- Charlotte, N.C., couple Caleb Cox and Ella Glass are "lucky in love" after learning they are one of only seven couples across the country that will be married at a Wal-Mart store on one of the most sought-after wedding dates in recent years. Wal-Mart stores and G-Squared, a Wal-Mart exclusive brand from Gartner Studios, announced the names of the seven couples receiving such wedding packages earlier this week as a result of their "Lucky in Love Wedding Search."
When Wal-Mart Stores discovered many of its betrothed customers were having difficulty finding venues for their July 7 -- or 7/7/07 -- weddings due to the popularity of a "lucky 7" date, they joined G-Squared to provide a solution. In addition, the cost of the average American wedding can be overwhelming at $22,000(1). The answer was the "Lucky in Love Wedding Search" to provide seven couples their local Wal-Mart lawn and garden area as the colorful backdrop for the ceremonies and receptions. After reviewing more than 400 entries from across the country, Caleb and Ella were selected to say "I do" at the Wal-Mart Supercenter at 3706 Diann Marie Road in Louisville, Ky., which is Ella's hometown.
Read more . . .
Thursday, July 5, 2007
Friday, June 29, 2007
Traditional --WHO PAYS FOR WHAT EXPENSES
Today most couples usually pay for their own wedding with some contributions from families. The average wedding budget will consist of spending anywhere from $5,000- $25,000 - (depending on your venue, honeymoon, decor and size of the event).
As planners we would also like to inform you that a planned out wedding 24 months to 12 months is an idea time. Although we have planned many weddings in a month's time frame .
#1 fact - You need to have a budget that is a must.
#2 fact - Set up an account for just wedding activities.
Both parties need to contribute at lease the same amount to the account every time you get paid.
The account is to be put in both names and to be used for wedding and honeymoon expenses only.
"""Remember This is not The I need this account....""""
(hint, nice pair of sandals, need my nails done or, oh I had to get my hair done). Or (hint, new 22's, video games, nor the new I Apple (phone), or whatever your friends have told you that you need to check out..... )
Just in case you did want a break down of who pays for A Traditional Wedding here we go!!!!
The Wedding Gown, Headpiece & Accessories --The Bride's Family
The Wedding Ring for the Bride --The Groom
The Wedding Ring for the Groom --The Bride
Wedding Gift for the Groom --The Bride
Wedding Gift for the Bride --The Groom
Bridesmaid Gifts --The Bride
Groomsmen/Usher Gifts --The Groom
Bride's Bouquet --The Groom
Bridesmaids Bouquet-- The Bride's Family
Mother's Corsages-- The Groom
Grandmother Corsages --The Bride's Family
Groom's Boutonniere --The Groom
Groomsmen Boutonnieres --The Groom
Father's Boutonnieres --The Bride
Usher's Boutonnieres --The Groom
Ceremony/Reception Flowers --The Bride's Family
Altar Baskets/Arches --The Bride's Family
Canopy/Carpet/Candleabras --The Bride's Family
Rented Items for Wedding --The Bride's Family
Rented Items for Reception --The Bride's Family
Invitations/Announcements --The Bride's Family
Wedding Programs --The Bride's Family
Napkins/Matches/Favors The Bride's Family
Marriage License --The Groom
Church Fee --The Bride's Family
Clergyman/Officiant Fee --The Groom
Musician/Soloist --The Bride
Reception Hall --The Bride's Family
Catered Reception/Professional Services --The Bride's Family
Wedding Photography --The Bride's Family
Video Photography The Bride's Family
Orchestra/Band/ DJ-- The Groom's Family
Wedding Cake --The Bride's Family
Grooms Cake --The Groom's Family
Rehearsal Dinner --The Groom's Family
Bridesmaid Luncheon-- The Bride
Bachelor Party --Best Man/Groom's Attendants
Bachelorette Party --Matron/Maid Of Honor
Wedding Breakfast-- The Bride's Family
Bridal Brunch-- The Bride's Family
Bridesmaid's Gown-- Bridesmaid's
Maid of Honor Gown --Maid of Honor
Matron of Honor Gown-- Matron of Honor
Best Man Formal Wear --Best Man
Usher's Formal Wear -- Usher's
Groomsmen's Formal Wear --Groomsmen
Father of Bride Formal Wear-- The Bride's Family
Father of Groom Form Wear-- The Groom's Family
Grooms Formal Wear --The Groom's Family
Children's Formal Wear --The Children's Parents
Limousine Service-- The Groom
Honeymoon Arrangements --The Groom
Travel Expenses to the Wedding --The Out-of-town Attendant or Family
Memeber
Accommodations for out-of-town Guest --The Brides Family
****Now as stated before this was Traditional Wedding Etiquette "Who Pays For What". *****
In today's world I will repeat usually the couple pays for everything with a little help from family members.
(next ...Who is Responsiblity for What).
As planners we would also like to inform you that a planned out wedding 24 months to 12 months is an idea time. Although we have planned many weddings in a month's time frame .
#1 fact - You need to have a budget that is a must.
#2 fact - Set up an account for just wedding activities.
Both parties need to contribute at lease the same amount to the account every time you get paid.
The account is to be put in both names and to be used for wedding and honeymoon expenses only.
"""Remember This is not The I need this account....""""
(hint, nice pair of sandals, need my nails done or, oh I had to get my hair done). Or (hint, new 22's, video games, nor the new I Apple (phone), or whatever your friends have told you that you need to check out..... )
Just in case you did want a break down of who pays for A Traditional Wedding here we go!!!!
The Wedding Gown, Headpiece & Accessories --The Bride's Family
The Wedding Ring for the Bride --The Groom
The Wedding Ring for the Groom --The Bride
Wedding Gift for the Groom --The Bride
Wedding Gift for the Bride --The Groom
Bridesmaid Gifts --The Bride
Groomsmen/Usher Gifts --The Groom
Bride's Bouquet --The Groom
Bridesmaids Bouquet-- The Bride's Family
Mother's Corsages-- The Groom
Grandmother Corsages --The Bride's Family
Groom's Boutonniere --The Groom
Groomsmen Boutonnieres --The Groom
Father's Boutonnieres --The Bride
Usher's Boutonnieres --The Groom
Ceremony/Reception Flowers --The Bride's Family
Altar Baskets/Arches --The Bride's Family
Canopy/Carpet/Candleabras --The Bride's Family
Rented Items for Wedding --The Bride's Family
Rented Items for Reception --The Bride's Family
Invitations/Announcements --The Bride's Family
Wedding Programs --The Bride's Family
Napkins/Matches/Favors The Bride's Family
Marriage License --The Groom
Church Fee --The Bride's Family
Clergyman/Officiant Fee --The Groom
Musician/Soloist --The Bride
Reception Hall --The Bride's Family
Catered Reception/Professional Services --The Bride's Family
Wedding Photography --The Bride's Family
Video Photography The Bride's Family
Orchestra/Band/ DJ-- The Groom's Family
Wedding Cake --The Bride's Family
Grooms Cake --The Groom's Family
Rehearsal Dinner --The Groom's Family
Bridesmaid Luncheon-- The Bride
Bachelor Party --Best Man/Groom's Attendants
Bachelorette Party --Matron/Maid Of Honor
Wedding Breakfast-- The Bride's Family
Bridal Brunch-- The Bride's Family
Bridesmaid's Gown-- Bridesmaid's
Maid of Honor Gown --Maid of Honor
Matron of Honor Gown-- Matron of Honor
Best Man Formal Wear --Best Man
Usher's Formal Wear -- Usher's
Groomsmen's Formal Wear --Groomsmen
Father of Bride Formal Wear-- The Bride's Family
Father of Groom Form Wear-- The Groom's Family
Grooms Formal Wear --The Groom's Family
Children's Formal Wear --The Children's Parents
Limousine Service-- The Groom
Honeymoon Arrangements --The Groom
Travel Expenses to the Wedding --The Out-of-town Attendant or Family
Memeber
Accommodations for out-of-town Guest --The Brides Family
****Now as stated before this was Traditional Wedding Etiquette "Who Pays For What". *****
In today's world I will repeat usually the couple pays for everything with a little help from family members.
(next ...Who is Responsiblity for What).
Friday, June 22, 2007
Yes!!! There Is A Groom's Calendar
The Groom's Calendar
10-12 Months Before:
8-9 Months Before:
6 Months Before:
3 Months Before:
1 Month Before:
2 Weeks Before:
The Week Before:
The Big Day:
10-12 Months Before:
- Pick out the engagement ring (if not yet selected).
- Announce your engagement.
- Discuss wedding plans and budget with fiancée and all parents.
- Select your best man, groomsmen, ushers (one usher per 40 guests).
8-9 Months Before:
- Meet with officiant to discuss the ceremony.
- Start compiling your guest list.
- Begin making your honeymoon travel plans.
6 Months Before:
- Visit gift registry with fiancée.
- Arrange for transportation to ceremony, and to reception, for the wedding party.
- Complete your honeymoon plans.
- Register with nearest Tuxedo shop and pick your tuxedos and accessories.
3 Months Before:
- Return to your tuxedo shop and get fitted for your tuxedo.
- Complete the guest list.
- Pick out and order wedding rings.
- Plan rehearsal dinner with parents.
- Choose gifts for your bride and wedding party.
1 Month Before:
- Make sure all men have been measured for tuxedos. Get your marriage license.
- Arrange to move belongings to your new home.
2 Weeks Before:
- Attend bachelor party (please keep it clean you will have to explain).
- Adjust insurance policies, bank accounts, utilities, etc.
The Week Before:
- Pick up your tuxedo remember, try it on, in the store, to insure a proper fit.
- Pack for the honeymoon.
- Get cash for gratuities and officiant's fee.
- Take a deep breath... you're almost there.
- Enjoy your rehearsal and dinner.
The Big Day:
- Double-check all details, wedding rings, and transportation... marriage license.
- Get to the ceremony on time.
- Relax and Enjoy your wedding!
Thursday, June 21, 2007
"Diamonds Are A Girl's Best Friend"
Does the statement weigh more than the meaning of the symbol?
Listen ladies - true you are worth the gloss, the sharpest, you are well worth the cut but lets think about this for a minute. You and your man are discussing the fact that you will be together for the rest of your lives. So you know eventually you will be getting married. So yes there will be an engagement ring. And yes you do expect to be able to show it off at the water cooler, at the sorority meeting and yes at church Sunday morning.
Now lets take a minute to reflect on the approximately true to life of the matter the cost of the diamond ---yes I said the cost. Your finance will probably be making those payments for that ring till after the wedding day. ***Remember the average cost for an engagement ring will run your man between the price of $500- $3500 and up. http://www.engagementrings.lovetoknow.com
Now I know you are saying yes and I am well worth it. Yes you are but now lets see if you decide to maybe cut down on the dollar amount and maybe try another solution the money that you will save him now will benefit you later in the end. I am sure you can come up with other means of finding use for the extra dollars.
Now in being fair lets think about being creativity maybe you and your finance could come up with a special design for your engagement ring and your wedding bands. Being unique in designing your rings would be a special gift to each other. Some of choices if you would like to consider are precious stones or gems just to mention a few..
Precious Gems:
Tanzanite - blue - purple, shapes (oval, trillion, cushion, pear shape, round, heart shape, marquise)
Emerald - green shapes
Ruby - raspberry with a reddish tone
Sapphire - many colors for this stone ( blue, pink, padparadscha (red tone), yellow sapphire, white sapphire, green sapphire).
Semi - precious gemstones
Amethyst - purple tone
Briolettes - red-orange, green, blue, white crystal, pink
Carnelian - orange with red tones
Chalcedony - green very soft
Cyrysoprase - green tone
Coral - lite red
Labradorite - skyblue
Lapis - ocean blue
Malachite - aqua green
Spessartite garnet - orange flame color
Turquoise - lite blue greenish tone
Charming Citrine - golden tone
Diamond Topaz - crystal white
Topaz - golden -yellow tone
Now don't get me wrong diamonds are a girls best friend but some of these gems look beautiful when they are combine with unique designs and they have special meanings when you have created it yourself. Besides when that anniversary rolls around and you know the dollars are heavy and plenty than go ahead and hit your man up for the cut that is flawless and describes you to the tee....
But just in case you don't fall for this remember your diamonds are precious just as well .....and they will stand out in a crowd..... check out these tips by www.diamondreview.com
Listen ladies - true you are worth the gloss, the sharpest, you are well worth the cut but lets think about this for a minute. You and your man are discussing the fact that you will be together for the rest of your lives. So you know eventually you will be getting married. So yes there will be an engagement ring. And yes you do expect to be able to show it off at the water cooler, at the sorority meeting and yes at church Sunday morning.
Now lets take a minute to reflect on the approximately true to life of the matter the cost of the diamond ---yes I said the cost. Your finance will probably be making those payments for that ring till after the wedding day. ***Remember the average cost for an engagement ring will run your man between the price of $500- $3500 and up. http://www.engagementrings.lovetoknow.com
Now I know you are saying yes and I am well worth it. Yes you are but now lets see if you decide to maybe cut down on the dollar amount and maybe try another solution the money that you will save him now will benefit you later in the end. I am sure you can come up with other means of finding use for the extra dollars.
Now in being fair lets think about being creativity maybe you and your finance could come up with a special design for your engagement ring and your wedding bands. Being unique in designing your rings would be a special gift to each other. Some of choices if you would like to consider are precious stones or gems just to mention a few..
Precious Gems:
Tanzanite - blue - purple, shapes (oval, trillion, cushion, pear shape, round, heart shape, marquise)
Emerald - green shapes
Ruby - raspberry with a reddish tone
Sapphire - many colors for this stone ( blue, pink, padparadscha (red tone), yellow sapphire, white sapphire, green sapphire).
Semi - precious gemstones
Amethyst - purple tone
Briolettes - red-orange, green, blue, white crystal, pink
Carnelian - orange with red tones
Chalcedony - green very soft
Cyrysoprase - green tone
Coral - lite red
Labradorite - skyblue
Lapis - ocean blue
Malachite - aqua green
Spessartite garnet - orange flame color
Turquoise - lite blue greenish tone
Charming Citrine - golden tone
Diamond Topaz - crystal white
Topaz - golden -yellow tone
Now don't get me wrong diamonds are a girls best friend but some of these gems look beautiful when they are combine with unique designs and they have special meanings when you have created it yourself. Besides when that anniversary rolls around and you know the dollars are heavy and plenty than go ahead and hit your man up for the cut that is flawless and describes you to the tee....
But just in case you don't fall for this remember your diamonds are precious just as well .....and they will stand out in a crowd..... check out these tips by www.diamondreview.com
Monday, June 18, 2007
Non Traditional Vows
So you have visited Martha Stewart's site to find out if it's OK to use Non Traditional wedding vows. Then you found out the site only covers traditional wedding vows. Vows are a very personal matter between a couple. The thing to remember is this is your day. You have full control over the most memorable experience you will cherish and remember.
Non Traditional wedding vows may be in order, if the couple is from different religious faiths or they just want something different that represents their unique relationship. We know of couple that had been dating for a while and one of them was married before. So Carl, who was Catholic and Phyllis, who was Baptist, decided on non traditional vows so no wedding attendees would be offended. More importantly, they wanted non traditional vows, because they felt their relationship deserved an expression of who they were together and as individuals.
So there are many reasons, and it's perfectly OK, to develop your own non traditional vows. IT's YOUR DAY!!
Below are some suggested words for creating your own non traditional vows. Take what works for you and discard the rest.
"I bring myself to you this day to share my life with you; you can trust my love, for it's real. I promise to be a faithful mate and to unfailingly share and support your hopes, dreams and goals. I vow to be there for you always; when you fall, I will catch you; whey you cry, I will comfort you; when you laugh, I will share your joy. Everything I am and everything I have is yours, from this moment forth and for eternity."
"Since you came into my life, my days have been bright and glorious, but today, our wedding day, is the brightest of them all, a golden moment, made splendid by our love for each other. And yet, this beautiful moment is only a taste of what is to come as we share our lives together as husband and wife. I pledge my love to you from this day forward; I promise to be faithful and true to you, rejoicing in my good fortune to have found you as my life-mate."
" I love you and I want to be your partner through out our life together. I promise to be patient spouse, always be truthful and compassionate. I will be your best friend, your soul mate, your sweetheart, your helpmate throughout life, always putting you first above my own needs. I promise to live a life that will honour the vows that we have spoken before God, family and friends and make you glad you have married me on this day.
"Since you have entered my life my days have been bright and glorious, but today my love is the brightest of them all, a wonderful moment, made splendid by our love for each other. And yet on this day we share this beautiful moment. This is only the taste of what our life will be as we come to share our lives together as husband and wife. I pledge on our love for each other that from this day forward: I will be faithful to our and true to you rejoicing in my good fortune to have found such a wonderful soul mate who will be my life mate forever and forever.
Non Traditional wedding vows may be in order, if the couple is from different religious faiths or they just want something different that represents their unique relationship. We know of couple that had been dating for a while and one of them was married before. So Carl, who was Catholic and Phyllis, who was Baptist, decided on non traditional vows so no wedding attendees would be offended. More importantly, they wanted non traditional vows, because they felt their relationship deserved an expression of who they were together and as individuals.
So there are many reasons, and it's perfectly OK, to develop your own non traditional vows. IT's YOUR DAY!!
Below are some suggested words for creating your own non traditional vows. Take what works for you and discard the rest.
"I bring myself to you this day to share my life with you; you can trust my love, for it's real. I promise to be a faithful mate and to unfailingly share and support your hopes, dreams and goals. I vow to be there for you always; when you fall, I will catch you; whey you cry, I will comfort you; when you laugh, I will share your joy. Everything I am and everything I have is yours, from this moment forth and for eternity."
"Since you came into my life, my days have been bright and glorious, but today, our wedding day, is the brightest of them all, a golden moment, made splendid by our love for each other. And yet, this beautiful moment is only a taste of what is to come as we share our lives together as husband and wife. I pledge my love to you from this day forward; I promise to be faithful and true to you, rejoicing in my good fortune to have found you as my life-mate."
" I love you and I want to be your partner through out our life together. I promise to be patient spouse, always be truthful and compassionate. I will be your best friend, your soul mate, your sweetheart, your helpmate throughout life, always putting you first above my own needs. I promise to live a life that will honour the vows that we have spoken before God, family and friends and make you glad you have married me on this day.
"Since you have entered my life my days have been bright and glorious, but today my love is the brightest of them all, a wonderful moment, made splendid by our love for each other. And yet on this day we share this beautiful moment. This is only the taste of what our life will be as we come to share our lives together as husband and wife. I pledge on our love for each other that from this day forward: I will be faithful to our and true to you rejoicing in my good fortune to have found such a wonderful soul mate who will be my life mate forever and forever.
Sunday, June 10, 2007
Tips For Event Planning
BEWARE --- A STRONG HEART - You Can Not Be - A SOFT HEART - And be a successful event planner. You are in charge of the entire event - there will be no second chances.
Believe it or not, when it is time to present your company and yourself the "The I am Number #1 has to be branded on your chest."
NERVES OF STEEL - In order to deal with arrogant bosses, administrators, fathers, mothers, brides or grooms- problems or no problems you must stay stern, upbeat and positive during the event. (You can fall out later after all is said and done). NEVER SHED A TEAR the opposition must always see a smile -(never a frown) on the event planners face.
GRACE UNDER PRESSURE --- Why event planners stick it out through pressure, crazy hours, and deadlines. "They love what they do." "The event planners motto". "You are only as good as your last event.". You will be called upon to make many decisions, a lot of times in only a split second. You must have good communication skills. Your ideas must be planned out effectively to your clients, staff, and vendors among others. Your image must stand out with a (save the day emblem on your chest).
FLEXIBILITY--- Remember there is always something that will go against the grain. It will never show up on the planning chart. You must always be ready for the great come back pull it by the strings, horns or by the nose to make sure your event goes off with a hooray --get set you must bring a client back to reality - sometimes their
plans are way above their budget, **hint let them know way before the last item on the check list is check off" ---you must must let them know the decor they are looking for does not go with the theme that they are trying to present.
SMART TIP -- While keeping your business on track, offer your services as a volunteer. This will present a good record for you to follow. Make sure you are assisting the person who is in charge and that you get the experience you need to put your business on the track and run with it.
SMART TIP -- The average event planner will host anywhere between 40-50 events per year whether it be corporate, trade shows, conventions, company picnics, holiday parties, meetings, fundraisers, receptions. Try and find a smaller event and work your way up the ladder. Lets not forget our social events as well-- weddings, birthdays, and anniversary parties, bar and bat mitzvahs, Sweet 16 parties, children's parties, graduations, and reunions etc.
Believe it or not, when it is time to present your company and yourself the "The I am Number #1 has to be branded on your chest."
NERVES OF STEEL - In order to deal with arrogant bosses, administrators, fathers, mothers, brides or grooms- problems or no problems you must stay stern, upbeat and positive during the event. (You can fall out later after all is said and done). NEVER SHED A TEAR the opposition must always see a smile -(never a frown) on the event planners face.
GRACE UNDER PRESSURE --- Why event planners stick it out through pressure, crazy hours, and deadlines. "They love what they do." "The event planners motto". "You are only as good as your last event.". You will be called upon to make many decisions, a lot of times in only a split second. You must have good communication skills. Your ideas must be planned out effectively to your clients, staff, and vendors among others. Your image must stand out with a (save the day emblem on your chest).
FLEXIBILITY--- Remember there is always something that will go against the grain. It will never show up on the planning chart. You must always be ready for the great come back pull it by the strings, horns or by the nose to make sure your event goes off with a hooray --get set you must bring a client back to reality - sometimes their
plans are way above their budget, **hint let them know way before the last item on the check list is check off" ---you must must let them know the decor they are looking for does not go with the theme that they are trying to present.
SMART TIP -- While keeping your business on track, offer your services as a volunteer. This will present a good record for you to follow. Make sure you are assisting the person who is in charge and that you get the experience you need to put your business on the track and run with it.
SMART TIP -- The average event planner will host anywhere between 40-50 events per year whether it be corporate, trade shows, conventions, company picnics, holiday parties, meetings, fundraisers, receptions. Try and find a smaller event and work your way up the ladder. Lets not forget our social events as well-- weddings, birthdays, and anniversary parties, bar and bat mitzvahs, Sweet 16 parties, children's parties, graduations, and reunions etc.
Tuesday, June 5, 2007
The Guy Needs To Step Up to the Altar
Remember Guys [for your safety], I could be thrown out of the club for helping you.
Guys, if you are ready to propose let it come from the heart--- the words will generally come out wonderful..... (trust yourself)
If all fails just give her the ring and tell her you want her to spend the rest of her life with you....
- When your lady asks your opinion -- Give it -- whether you think its right or wrong. (make sure its right).
- Always remember to compliment --- whether its a flower, a color or just some object that you have no clue (its looks nice.....) we always want to be recognized for our accomplishments.....
- Be romantic --- (this is number one) no matter how tired you are..... (you will get more rest later).
- When dining out --- (remember how you were brought up) when out in a restaurant ---- other people will see how you were brought up as well
- Eating and drinking should be done quietly, with your mouth closed.
- Don't load your food up on your fork.
- If you're eating at a buffet, its OK to make several trips. Do not load your plates up at one time.
- Unless you are a medical doctor, or you have a babysitter caring for the children, do not answer your cell phone during dinner.
- When you have finished eating, place your utensils parallel to each other across your plate. The knife blade and fork tines should rest close to the plate's center. This alerts the server your plate can be removed.
Guys, if you are ready to propose let it come from the heart--- the words will generally come out wonderful..... (trust yourself)
If all fails just give her the ring and tell her you want her to spend the rest of her life with you....
Tuesday, May 29, 2007
What was Heavier : The Bride, the Groom or The Cake?
The baker displays the cake so naturally, so beautiful as each layer was placed on top of each other so gracefully'
The cake was designed as if it was to good to eat.. As the bakery started to place the last top on the cake, the next thing that occurred was a wedding blooper you could never repeat. The top fell completely off the table and down to the floor.... In the middle of the setup everyone turned as if "some disaster like storm of the century on attacking the shore.
The bakery who apparently was prepared for anything to happen had her assistant run back to the car and bring back a new top.... (question does this happen a lot -- you need to travel with two toppers.) Needless to say the ceremony and the cake cutting was a smash literally.... Later the news was broken to the bride and the groom..... they still had a smile.... on their face... Wonder what would have happen if there was not an extra topping....
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